1 00:00:14,910 --> 00:00:12,390 my name is julie carver 2 00:00:17,269 --> 00:00:14,920 i am a paranormal 3 00:00:20,550 --> 00:00:17,279 investigator my name is debbie miller 4 00:00:23,429 --> 00:00:20,560 and i am a paranormal investigator 5 00:00:25,029 --> 00:00:23,439 i started out in the field of paranormal 6 00:00:27,029 --> 00:00:25,039 investigation 7 00:00:29,189 --> 00:00:27,039 when i got reacquainted with debbie at a 8 00:00:31,269 --> 00:00:29,199 high school reunion 9 00:00:33,430 --> 00:00:31,279 we kind of 10 00:00:35,590 --> 00:00:33,440 talked and hey what are you doing and 11 00:00:37,750 --> 00:00:35,600 i'm doing this and she mentioned that 12 00:00:40,150 --> 00:00:37,760 she was into the 13 00:00:42,389 --> 00:00:40,160 paranormal and was in a group and i said 14 00:00:45,270 --> 00:00:42,399 that's fantastic 15 00:00:46,790 --> 00:00:45,280 uh we got together on a couple of 16 00:00:47,990 --> 00:00:46,800 different things that her group had 17 00:00:51,029 --> 00:00:48,000 going 18 00:00:52,950 --> 00:00:51,039 and i loved it and she said you know 19 00:00:55,910 --> 00:00:52,960 i've been thinking about starting my own 20 00:00:57,910 --> 00:00:55,920 group how would you feel about 21 00:01:00,069 --> 00:00:57,920 you know doing this with me and i said i 22 00:01:01,910 --> 00:01:00,079 would love it and that's how i got 23 00:01:03,110 --> 00:01:01,920 started and i've had experiences through 24 00:01:05,910 --> 00:01:03,120 my life 25 00:01:07,910 --> 00:01:05,920 uh growing up as a small child and and 26 00:01:09,910 --> 00:01:07,920 having experiences and and at that time 27 00:01:11,670 --> 00:01:09,920 i really didn't 28 00:01:14,230 --> 00:01:11,680 think much about it it wasn't until i 29 00:01:15,270 --> 00:01:14,240 got older and i started to question what 30 00:01:17,910 --> 00:01:15,280 exactly 31 00:01:19,990 --> 00:01:17,920 was what's going on here so 32 00:01:21,350 --> 00:01:20,000 when i got to w i kind of it opened my 33 00:01:22,070 --> 00:01:21,360 eyes to 34 00:01:24,710 --> 00:01:22,080 to 35 00:01:26,550 --> 00:01:24,720 what my experiences were so that's how i 36 00:01:30,870 --> 00:01:26,560 got started 37 00:01:31,749 --> 00:01:30,880 truly by coincidence 38 00:02:16,630 --> 00:01:31,759 i 39 00:02:19,110 --> 00:02:16,640 but 40 00:02:20,869 --> 00:02:19,120 i didn't know then what i was talking to 41 00:02:22,869 --> 00:02:20,879 were people that weren't there 42 00:02:24,229 --> 00:02:22,879 and as i got older i kind of lost that 43 00:02:25,910 --> 00:02:24,239 ability and 44 00:02:28,390 --> 00:02:25,920 things would happen like premonition 45 00:02:30,710 --> 00:02:28,400 dreams and things would happen and as 46 00:02:32,869 --> 00:02:30,720 this group was talking and talking and 47 00:02:35,509 --> 00:02:32,879 how they may have made communications 48 00:02:36,550 --> 00:02:35,519 and had evps i began 49 00:02:39,030 --> 00:02:36,560 thinking 50 00:02:40,630 --> 00:02:39,040 yeah i want to do this i want to go on 51 00:02:42,790 --> 00:02:40,640 an investigation 52 00:02:45,270 --> 00:02:42,800 and so that was when we did the 100 year 53 00:02:46,470 --> 00:02:45,280 old farmhouse that that i suggested that 54 00:02:47,589 --> 00:02:46,480 we do 55 00:02:49,110 --> 00:02:47,599 because they didn't have anything that 56 00:02:51,190 --> 00:02:49,120 they wanted to investigate we wanted to 57 00:02:53,509 --> 00:02:51,200 see if you know we clicked because 58 00:02:55,430 --> 00:02:53,519 clicking in a team is important 59 00:02:56,229 --> 00:02:55,440 and so um i was with that group for 60 00:02:58,550 --> 00:02:56,239 about 61 00:03:00,229 --> 00:02:58,560 four months and did a few investigations 62 00:03:02,149 --> 00:03:00,239 and that was 100 year old farmhouse in 63 00:03:05,990 --> 00:03:02,159 the spook house and 64 00:03:07,750 --> 00:03:06,000 jule and i were talking and and 65 00:03:09,670 --> 00:03:07,760 that's how we ended up together 66 00:03:14,309 --> 00:03:09,680 our fathers knew each other 67 00:03:17,030 --> 00:03:14,319 and as we became friends our children 68 00:03:19,350 --> 00:03:17,040 became friends especially my dog my her 69 00:03:21,830 --> 00:03:19,360 daughter and my son 70 00:03:23,270 --> 00:03:21,840 these two are like pew peas in a pod and 71 00:03:24,949 --> 00:03:23,280 we know we look around and go okay 72 00:03:27,110 --> 00:03:24,959 where's jesse and shayna 73 00:03:28,949 --> 00:03:27,120 we we know they're up to something and 74 00:03:30,949 --> 00:03:28,959 we've got to go find them yeah so but we 75 00:03:32,869 --> 00:03:30,959 all work together and they're very good 76 00:03:35,110 --> 00:03:32,879 investigators they work well together 77 00:03:35,990 --> 00:03:35,120 and and i think that is makes us a good 78 00:03:37,910 --> 00:03:36,000 team 79 00:03:39,990 --> 00:03:37,920 is that since we've known each other for 80 00:03:42,070 --> 00:03:40,000 so long we know 81 00:03:44,710 --> 00:03:42,080 how they eat i mean it we know how we 82 00:03:47,270 --> 00:03:44,720 think we play off each other yes yeah we 83 00:03:49,670 --> 00:03:47,280 definitely and and the kids have really 84 00:03:53,509 --> 00:03:49,680 i mean i call them kids they're yeah 25 85 00:03:56,229 --> 00:03:53,519 26. yeah but they they match really well 86 00:03:58,789 --> 00:03:56,239 mm-hmm they do so we make a good team 87 00:04:01,429 --> 00:03:58,799 yeah and and you know people think 88 00:04:03,030 --> 00:04:01,439 paranormal investigating is like you see 89 00:04:05,830 --> 00:04:03,040 on tv 90 00:04:07,190 --> 00:04:05,840 it's not it's like watching paint peel 91 00:04:09,589 --> 00:04:07,200 off a wall 92 00:04:11,670 --> 00:04:09,599 you know you can sit there for four 93 00:04:13,990 --> 00:04:11,680 hours and get absolutely nothing and 94 00:04:17,189 --> 00:04:14,000 what do you do in those four hours you 95 00:04:18,629 --> 00:04:17,199 sit around and you yak and you talk and 96 00:04:21,189 --> 00:04:18,639 you talk about everything which is 97 00:04:23,110 --> 00:04:21,199 causing a bonding between all of us 98 00:04:24,550 --> 00:04:23,120 and what that that's bonding and it's 99 00:04:27,030 --> 00:04:24,560 the funniest thing that's when you pick 100 00:04:29,270 --> 00:04:27,040 up the best parents yes it is voices and 101 00:04:31,510 --> 00:04:29,280 evps is when you're ignoring them they 102 00:04:32,950 --> 00:04:31,520 do not like to be ignored 103 00:04:34,390 --> 00:04:32,960 and but 104 00:04:36,870 --> 00:04:34,400 you know 105 00:04:38,710 --> 00:04:36,880 that's kind of how our story is yeah i 106 00:04:41,510 --> 00:04:38,720 think one of our greatest experiences 107 00:04:44,230 --> 00:04:41,520 that we as a team her and i experienced 108 00:04:46,790 --> 00:04:44,240 together we had a very dear friend 109 00:04:48,230 --> 00:04:46,800 that was in hospice and he was he was 110 00:04:51,110 --> 00:04:48,240 dying 111 00:04:52,550 --> 00:04:51,120 and i was in the room and with a bunch 112 00:04:54,150 --> 00:04:52,560 of other people 113 00:04:56,629 --> 00:04:54,160 and we were kind of 114 00:04:58,390 --> 00:04:56,639 we knew jamie could hear us and so we 115 00:04:59,670 --> 00:04:58,400 were just kind of joking around and i'd 116 00:05:01,189 --> 00:04:59,680 say you know 117 00:05:02,230 --> 00:05:01,199 that would be something jamie would do 118 00:05:03,830 --> 00:05:02,240 and 119 00:05:05,990 --> 00:05:03,840 this was the last words he ever spoke 120 00:05:07,430 --> 00:05:06,000 was he laughed and said yeah that'd be 121 00:05:09,510 --> 00:05:07,440 me 122 00:05:11,510 --> 00:05:09,520 and then shortly after that it was like 123 00:05:13,990 --> 00:05:11,520 a split second and i go 124 00:05:15,270 --> 00:05:14,000 i think he's gone you guys yeah and he 125 00:05:16,870 --> 00:05:15,280 was gone 126 00:05:18,790 --> 00:05:16,880 and so you know everybody said their 127 00:05:21,110 --> 00:05:18,800 goodbyes and we were sitting in the 128 00:05:22,870 --> 00:05:21,120 break area and julia and i there was 129 00:05:24,710 --> 00:05:22,880 other people around and we were sitting 130 00:05:25,510 --> 00:05:24,720 at a table talking 131 00:05:27,430 --> 00:05:25,520 and 132 00:05:29,749 --> 00:05:27,440 well we were we were just saying you 133 00:05:31,590 --> 00:05:29,759 know we're glad that jamie went peaceful 134 00:05:34,870 --> 00:05:31,600 but i said you know i wouldn't put it 135 00:05:36,870 --> 00:05:34,880 past him to try to follow us and mess 136 00:05:40,790 --> 00:05:36,880 with us and 137 00:05:43,110 --> 00:05:40,800 at that moment we heard this yeah 138 00:05:45,590 --> 00:05:43,120 right between us like right in both of 139 00:05:47,350 --> 00:05:45,600 our ears and we looked at each other 140 00:05:48,790 --> 00:05:47,360 i go down 141 00:05:49,590 --> 00:05:48,800 like 142 00:05:52,870 --> 00:05:49,600 i 143 00:05:54,790 --> 00:05:52,880 because 144 00:05:56,870 --> 00:05:54,800 that would be totally something he would 145 00:05:59,749 --> 00:05:56,880 do he would do it and he he let us know 146 00:06:01,590 --> 00:05:59,759 hey i can hear you i'm i'm listening 147 00:06:03,830 --> 00:06:01,600 but it was just 148 00:06:05,110 --> 00:06:03,840 you know it's an emotional thing anyways 149 00:06:07,909 --> 00:06:05,120 but to hear that 150 00:06:09,110 --> 00:06:07,919 yeah between the two of us and we look 151 00:06:10,790 --> 00:06:09,120 at each other 152 00:06:13,270 --> 00:06:10,800 we both heard it 153 00:06:14,950 --> 00:06:13,280 and that we don't hear things together 154 00:06:16,710 --> 00:06:14,960 like that no so it was quite an 155 00:06:18,870 --> 00:06:16,720 experience now i hear things but 156 00:06:21,110 --> 00:06:18,880 together we heard this yeah i don't 157 00:06:23,510 --> 00:06:21,120 normally hear things like she does but 158 00:06:25,510 --> 00:06:23,520 for us to hear that together was 159 00:06:27,590 --> 00:06:25,520 that was kind of a validation yeah it 160 00:06:29,270 --> 00:06:27,600 was there's something 161 00:06:31,270 --> 00:06:29,280 and that was really personal because 162 00:06:33,029 --> 00:06:31,280 this was not an investigation this was a 163 00:06:34,469 --> 00:06:33,039 personal moment 164 00:06:36,629 --> 00:06:34,479 and 165 00:06:39,029 --> 00:06:36,639 it was very typical of 166 00:06:41,909 --> 00:06:39,039 jamie yep so yeah 167 00:06:43,430 --> 00:06:41,919 when we start out on an investigation 168 00:06:46,150 --> 00:06:43,440 everybody has their little quirks that 169 00:06:49,189 --> 00:06:46,160 they have to do julie and i 170 00:06:51,749 --> 00:06:49,199 quirk is we have to buy cigars 171 00:06:53,670 --> 00:06:51,759 it's just our lucky charm thing and we 172 00:06:55,830 --> 00:06:53,680 get the sometimes we get the flavored 173 00:06:57,189 --> 00:06:55,840 grape cayenne one time we've got those 174 00:06:59,350 --> 00:06:57,199 remember that big huge one that we 175 00:07:00,710 --> 00:06:59,360 bought about sick to death by the time 176 00:07:03,189 --> 00:07:00,720 we finished that one 177 00:07:04,950 --> 00:07:03,199 but we we've smoked a cigar 178 00:07:07,189 --> 00:07:04,960 and uh we kind of just think we're kind 179 00:07:09,350 --> 00:07:07,199 of cool and but that's how we get 180 00:07:11,350 --> 00:07:09,360 started we load up our equipment and as 181 00:07:13,830 --> 00:07:11,360 soon as we're on the road we light up 182 00:07:15,990 --> 00:07:13,840 that cigar and that's like our good luck 183 00:07:17,749 --> 00:07:16,000 charm that this is going to be in a good 184 00:07:20,309 --> 00:07:17,759 investigation so that's one of the 185 00:07:23,189 --> 00:07:20,319 things that we do and yeah and then when 186 00:07:24,309 --> 00:07:23,199 we get to the location we we always like 187 00:07:25,189 --> 00:07:24,319 to arrive 188 00:07:27,430 --> 00:07:25,199 uh 189 00:07:28,870 --> 00:07:27,440 during daylight so that we can see what 190 00:07:30,629 --> 00:07:28,880 we're dealing with 191 00:07:33,510 --> 00:07:30,639 and know the surroundings and then we'd 192 00:07:35,909 --> 00:07:33,520 kind of do a perimeter check uh with our 193 00:07:38,070 --> 00:07:35,919 emf equipment and see what kind of 194 00:07:40,790 --> 00:07:38,080 what kind of electrical equipment might 195 00:07:43,749 --> 00:07:40,800 be around where we might mistake it for 196 00:07:45,029 --> 00:07:43,759 a paranormal hit or you know 197 00:07:46,950 --> 00:07:45,039 some type of 198 00:07:49,270 --> 00:07:46,960 uh paranormal activity when really it's 199 00:07:51,990 --> 00:07:49,280 just an electrical box you may not see 200 00:07:54,150 --> 00:07:52,000 that at night or where some maybe 201 00:07:55,510 --> 00:07:54,160 they've just dug and laid new cables or 202 00:08:00,309 --> 00:07:55,520 something or 203 00:08:04,230 --> 00:08:02,390 where you might see uh 204 00:08:06,150 --> 00:08:04,240 you might happen to 205 00:08:08,550 --> 00:08:06,160 see car lights going by we check where 206 00:08:10,230 --> 00:08:08,560 the roads are uh because a lot of times 207 00:08:11,510 --> 00:08:10,240 people think when they see shadow 208 00:08:12,790 --> 00:08:11,520 figures 209 00:08:15,110 --> 00:08:12,800 they're actually seeing their own shadow 210 00:08:17,350 --> 00:08:15,120 when a car passes exactly and 211 00:08:19,270 --> 00:08:17,360 that's very common so that we when we go 212 00:08:20,150 --> 00:08:19,280 inside the house we look for things like 213 00:08:24,070 --> 00:08:20,160 that 214 00:08:26,390 --> 00:08:24,080 emf readings we check we do the 215 00:08:27,909 --> 00:08:26,400 perimeter of the house we do an 216 00:08:30,309 --> 00:08:27,919 interview of the person what's your 217 00:08:31,670 --> 00:08:30,319 experience how does it affect you how 218 00:08:33,750 --> 00:08:31,680 can we help you 219 00:08:35,750 --> 00:08:33,760 type of thing and then we go into our we 220 00:08:37,269 --> 00:08:35,760 get out our equipment and 221 00:08:39,430 --> 00:08:37,279 a lot of times 222 00:08:41,269 --> 00:08:39,440 we prefer to have 223 00:08:42,550 --> 00:08:41,279 the room to ourself 224 00:08:43,589 --> 00:08:42,560 the house 225 00:08:44,470 --> 00:08:43,599 however 226 00:08:46,790 --> 00:08:44,480 in 227 00:08:48,710 --> 00:08:46,800 most cases they like to talk to the 228 00:08:50,470 --> 00:08:48,720 people they're familiar with so a lot of 229 00:08:52,710 --> 00:08:50,480 times we do the investigation with the 230 00:08:54,389 --> 00:08:52,720 client in the room 231 00:08:56,070 --> 00:08:54,399 and there are times too when the client 232 00:08:59,030 --> 00:08:56,080 says i don't i don't want to be here you 233 00:09:01,269 --> 00:08:59,040 guys lock up when you leave you know and 234 00:09:03,269 --> 00:09:01,279 and another one of our questions is what 235 00:09:06,150 --> 00:09:03,279 are you wanting from this 236 00:09:09,110 --> 00:09:06,160 you know do you want this thing gone 237 00:09:10,230 --> 00:09:09,120 are you are you just wanting validation 238 00:09:11,829 --> 00:09:10,240 of hey 239 00:09:14,470 --> 00:09:11,839 things are moving i want to know that 240 00:09:16,870 --> 00:09:14,480 i'm not crazy so that you know we go 241 00:09:18,790 --> 00:09:16,880 through a whole interview process of you 242 00:09:20,389 --> 00:09:18,800 know what they're expecting out of this 243 00:09:22,550 --> 00:09:20,399 and and how we can 244 00:09:23,509 --> 00:09:22,560 try to help them with this and then we 245 00:09:25,990 --> 00:09:23,519 always 246 00:09:28,230 --> 00:09:26,000 kind of regroup before we start the 247 00:09:29,350 --> 00:09:28,240 investigation and we usually try to say 248 00:09:31,269 --> 00:09:29,360 a prayer 249 00:09:33,190 --> 00:09:31,279 uh for protection 250 00:09:34,949 --> 00:09:33,200 and that's just something that 251 00:09:37,829 --> 00:09:34,959 that we just do 252 00:09:40,389 --> 00:09:37,839 uh and ask you for guidance right and 253 00:09:43,350 --> 00:09:40,399 and a lot of times when we do kind of 254 00:09:45,190 --> 00:09:43,360 flipping forward a little bit 255 00:09:47,590 --> 00:09:45,200 you get a client and they've got so much 256 00:09:51,190 --> 00:09:47,600 anxiety about it about what they're 257 00:09:53,990 --> 00:09:51,200 experiencing and it's it's hard to tell 258 00:09:55,110 --> 00:09:54,000 somebody i'm sorry we just didn't find 259 00:09:57,910 --> 00:09:55,120 anything 260 00:10:00,070 --> 00:09:57,920 and then other times you know 261 00:10:01,750 --> 00:10:00,080 we can see the anxiety on their face and 262 00:10:02,949 --> 00:10:01,760 and they they want us to find something 263 00:10:04,470 --> 00:10:02,959 so bad 264 00:10:06,630 --> 00:10:04,480 and when we do 265 00:10:08,150 --> 00:10:06,640 we have to say well we have to go 266 00:10:09,910 --> 00:10:08,160 through the evidence 267 00:10:11,750 --> 00:10:09,920 and we'll get back with you in a week 268 00:10:13,350 --> 00:10:11,760 because it's going to take us that long 269 00:10:15,190 --> 00:10:13,360 sometimes people don't want to wait a 270 00:10:18,069 --> 00:10:15,200 week so you have to have some equipment 271 00:10:20,069 --> 00:10:18,079 that's real time so they they can get 272 00:10:21,269 --> 00:10:20,079 some of that validation 273 00:10:23,190 --> 00:10:21,279 and 274 00:10:25,190 --> 00:10:23,200 you may sit around for 275 00:10:28,389 --> 00:10:25,200 four hours and get absolutely nothing 276 00:10:30,790 --> 00:10:28,399 and it honest it's it's frustrating you 277 00:10:34,389 --> 00:10:30,800 get so frustrated because 278 00:10:37,590 --> 00:10:34,399 you want to help that person so badly 279 00:10:38,550 --> 00:10:37,600 and you don't want to disappoint them 280 00:10:39,750 --> 00:10:38,560 but 281 00:10:42,069 --> 00:10:39,760 you know it's either it's going to 282 00:10:44,069 --> 00:10:42,079 happen or it's not you can't force it 283 00:10:46,069 --> 00:10:44,079 we may have to come back three or four 284 00:10:46,870 --> 00:10:46,079 times before we get something that that 285 00:10:49,430 --> 00:10:46,880 is 286 00:10:51,190 --> 00:10:49,440 that can validate sometimes we can't get 287 00:10:53,590 --> 00:10:51,200 anything at all but 288 00:10:55,110 --> 00:10:53,600 you have to be patient and you have to 289 00:10:57,750 --> 00:10:55,120 sit there and 290 00:10:58,829 --> 00:10:57,760 and there's ways to keep yourself busy 291 00:11:01,430 --> 00:10:58,839 you know 292 00:11:04,069 --> 00:11:01,440 um most of the time we just kind of joke 293 00:11:06,150 --> 00:11:04,079 around or try to ease the client talk to 294 00:11:07,910 --> 00:11:06,160 the client try to get them you know 295 00:11:09,190 --> 00:11:07,920 maybe we missed something in the initial 296 00:11:10,550 --> 00:11:09,200 interview and 297 00:11:12,790 --> 00:11:10,560 and then somebody will say oh yeah i 298 00:11:15,110 --> 00:11:12,800 remember i did that and then we'll go to 299 00:11:17,269 --> 00:11:15,120 that particular room so you know you 300 00:11:19,509 --> 00:11:17,279 just kind of have to every 301 00:11:21,670 --> 00:11:19,519 situation is different from the other no 302 00:11:23,910 --> 00:11:21,680 investigation is done exactly the same 303 00:11:25,829 --> 00:11:23,920 it's just not done that way you know and 304 00:11:27,110 --> 00:11:25,839 my way of thinking is 305 00:11:28,949 --> 00:11:27,120 you know i think the spirits are 306 00:11:31,030 --> 00:11:28,959 watching us 307 00:11:32,550 --> 00:11:31,040 and if someone's coming into my home and 308 00:11:34,389 --> 00:11:32,560 i don't know who they are and they're 309 00:11:37,030 --> 00:11:34,399 asking me all these questions i might 310 00:11:37,910 --> 00:11:37,040 just hold back a little bit and not 311 00:11:39,590 --> 00:11:37,920 you know 312 00:11:41,030 --> 00:11:39,600 start answering their questions right 313 00:11:42,710 --> 00:11:41,040 off i feel sometimes that they're 314 00:11:44,389 --> 00:11:42,720 observing us 315 00:11:47,110 --> 00:11:44,399 just as much as we're 316 00:11:49,030 --> 00:11:47,120 wanting them to communicate and 317 00:11:51,430 --> 00:11:49,040 sometimes i feel that 318 00:11:53,350 --> 00:11:51,440 maybe that first visit 319 00:11:55,750 --> 00:11:53,360 they're just watching maybe the second 320 00:11:57,990 --> 00:11:55,760 visit it's like oh okay i remember them 321 00:12:00,629 --> 00:11:58,000 they're not they're not here to 322 00:12:03,590 --> 00:12:00,639 you know harm us or you know make 323 00:12:04,470 --> 00:12:03,600 outrageous requests from us too 324 00:12:07,430 --> 00:12:04,480 house 325 00:12:09,750 --> 00:12:07,440 exactly we were the second demonel 326 00:12:12,230 --> 00:12:09,760 house's house is located in st louis 327 00:12:13,910 --> 00:12:12,240 right next to the limp mansion 328 00:12:15,750 --> 00:12:13,920 and they had had a paranormal team in 329 00:12:17,590 --> 00:12:15,760 there and they after this experience 330 00:12:20,790 --> 00:12:17,600 they said we are never allowing any 331 00:12:23,030 --> 00:12:20,800 paranormal team in this in this house 332 00:12:25,590 --> 00:12:23,040 ever again because whatever these 333 00:12:27,269 --> 00:12:25,600 paranormal investigators were doing 334 00:12:28,870 --> 00:12:27,279 dishes were being thrown at her own home 335 00:12:30,949 --> 00:12:28,880 private residence and her husband called 336 00:12:33,829 --> 00:12:30,959 and said what are you doing there 337 00:12:35,750 --> 00:12:33,839 you know things are being thrown around 338 00:12:37,190 --> 00:12:35,760 and after that she said no more 339 00:12:39,590 --> 00:12:37,200 investigating well we knew a friend that 340 00:12:41,670 --> 00:12:39,600 knew her and 341 00:12:45,190 --> 00:12:41,680 we went in and 342 00:12:48,389 --> 00:12:46,870 i'm telling you my husband calls you 343 00:12:50,629 --> 00:12:48,399 guys you're out of here out of here said 344 00:12:51,590 --> 00:12:50,639 we don't provoke this that's not how we 345 00:12:53,670 --> 00:12:51,600 do it 346 00:12:54,790 --> 00:12:53,680 we had the most amazing investigation 347 00:12:56,870 --> 00:12:54,800 with 348 00:13:00,550 --> 00:12:56,880 fantabulous 349 00:13:02,069 --> 00:13:00,560 yeah i mean we had wonderful evidence so 350 00:13:04,949 --> 00:13:02,079 you know i think it's a lot how you 351 00:13:08,069 --> 00:13:04,959 approach it and we try to respect 352 00:13:09,590 --> 00:13:08,079 the client as well as the spirits yeah 353 00:13:11,750 --> 00:13:09,600 like their property i mean some of these 354 00:13:14,150 --> 00:13:11,760 antique houses you go into there they're 355 00:13:16,470 --> 00:13:14,160 rare 150 year old 356 00:13:18,470 --> 00:13:16,480 antique things that take your shoes off 357 00:13:21,190 --> 00:13:18,480 you know and it's like you want to be 358 00:13:23,110 --> 00:13:21,200 respectful of those things 359 00:13:25,350 --> 00:13:23,120 we're all seeking answers and i think a 360 00:13:27,670 --> 00:13:25,360 lot of people have forgotten what this 361 00:13:29,110 --> 00:13:27,680 is really about and this really affects 362 00:13:31,110 --> 00:13:29,120 people's lives 363 00:13:32,310 --> 00:13:31,120 their everyday lives people live in 364 00:13:34,629 --> 00:13:32,320 houses 365 00:13:36,550 --> 00:13:34,639 that need validation 366 00:13:38,550 --> 00:13:36,560 okay i'm not crazy this is really 367 00:13:40,629 --> 00:13:38,560 happening to me it's not about 368 00:13:43,110 --> 00:13:40,639 investigating sometimes it's about the 369 00:13:45,110 --> 00:13:43,120 clients themselves and in a lot of those 370 00:13:46,230 --> 00:13:45,120 cases it's like i don't really want them 371 00:13:48,389 --> 00:13:46,240 gone 372 00:13:50,310 --> 00:13:48,399 i just want to know that i'm not crazy 373 00:13:52,870 --> 00:13:50,320 and you know we can co-exist and we're 374 00:13:54,629 --> 00:13:52,880 just fine as long as i know 375 00:13:55,990 --> 00:13:54,639 i'm not losing my mind 376 00:13:57,350 --> 00:13:56,000 and that's 377 00:13:58,949 --> 00:13:57,360 they're good to go 378 00:14:00,870 --> 00:13:58,959 i think one thing i would like for 379 00:14:04,629 --> 00:14:00,880 people to understand 380 00:14:06,389 --> 00:14:04,639 uh and and kind of take with them is 381 00:14:08,310 --> 00:14:06,399 believe what you see 382 00:14:09,110 --> 00:14:08,320 believe what you hear 383 00:14:11,350 --> 00:14:09,120 uh 384 00:14:14,230 --> 00:14:11,360 people are going to tell you that 385 00:14:17,030 --> 00:14:14,240 things don't exist i mean 386 00:14:19,269 --> 00:14:17,040 and that's their prerogative but 387 00:14:21,509 --> 00:14:19,279 have faith in yourself and have faith 388 00:14:23,509 --> 00:14:21,519 that what you see you are probably 389 00:14:26,150 --> 00:14:23,519 seeing and what you hear 390 00:14:27,670 --> 00:14:26,160 and what you feel you are 391 00:14:30,150 --> 00:14:27,680 you are entitled to that and you are 392 00:14:31,590 --> 00:14:30,160 probably feeling that yep i totally 393 00:14:34,629 --> 00:14:31,600 agree with what you say and you're not